Mak Dulu vs Mummy Sekarang

Mak dulu and mummy sekarang sangatla berbeza kan. Mummy sekarang bayak tanggungjawab kena pikul and terletak kat bahu ni. Keadaan dah jauh beza.

By comparing with earlier generation of moms, their duties just duduk kat rumah, tak perlu nak pergi kerja sebab daddy already can give whatever needed of the family. But now, the expenses was becoming high and higher, moms need to contribute to the family expenses, responsibilities of moms are become bigger. 

Lagipun ramai mummy yang ada higher education compare to daddy because even in university pun, female students are more than male students. There are no doubt currently ramai mom earn more than their husband. Am I right?

So as mummies, what are our responsibility???

I guess here we take an opportunity to change these. PLEASE ENCOURAGE YOUR BOYS TO GO TO UNIVERSITY! You all pernah tak dengar kat mana-mana (this is like kg say) 'takpe laki kalau tak belajar pun senang carik kerja, tak macam perempuan'

This is quote yang I used to hear la. And family encourage anak-anak perempuan masuk university but end up anak perempuan earn more salary and support the husband. Budak laki pulak kita tengok jadi despatch, clerk at government servant, runner, assistant kedai makan, kedai komouter kan? 

Okey, this is middle-class economy situation. Higher class, they are already rich, they has parents who support their life, making own business and etc. Near future, we could see that yang kaya bertambah kaya, yang misking jadi lagi miskin.

Haishhhh.. If we mom melahirkan anak-anak lelaki yang jadi engineer, accountant, scientist, architecture (ni semua yag critical case kat malaysia sebab sikit sangat) then we should be proud mom la. Tak guna pun anak ramai-ramai tapi kalau semua takat habis spm-diploma je nanti. 

Yang perempuan insyaAllah kalau betul didikannya, akan belajar la dan berjumpa lelaki yang baik, insyaAllah. Mak - mak pun kenala support anak - anak, moral support to them, yang tak kahwin lagi, doakan moga berjumpa jodoh yang baik, yang dah berkahwin doakan kebahagiaan perkahwinan mereka.

Kadang - kadang mak ni yang over kalau ank gaji lebih dari menantu, mula membebel dan tak suka menantu. Kalau dapat pula menantu lawa, di tuduh pulak kikis duit anak (ni semua cerita dalam paper) Hahahaahah.

But, it is real life la kan. At the end nanti masyarakat melayu ni tak kemana pun. Inner conflict je lebih. Cina korang tengok family cina, siap tinggal ramai-ramai satu family, tak kisahkan gaji sape besar, gaji sape kecik, less family conflict, better generation.

Anak-anak cina dapat good education at private U sebab ada insurance yang di beli sejak kecik. Kita kalau beli insurance karang di kata haram la baga-bagai. Tak terpikir la apela sebab ada ASB la kononnya. Kalau simpan pastu korek serupa dengan tak payah ada ASB kan. Kalau insurance memang kena bayar je, tak boleh korek dah.

Nampak tak?

Then now kecoh cos orang Melayu kurang beli rumah. Mak - mak pun mula membebel kalau anak-anak takde rumah, menyewa but if they encourage anak-anak diorang, ajar cara simpan duit or else simpankan duit untuk anak-anak, let say, we have like 20k from our  parents, we could but houses / apartment RM 200k right. Malay people ni kan suka cakap 'anak-anak carikla sendiri kalau dah besar and keje nanti' ataupun untuk yang perempuan 'laki kaula kena beli rumah untuk kau' See??? Tak ada support.

So, whoever, mummies who read this, teach your beloved husband to save some money for him, for children also. Buy suitable and affordable insurance as well for family sake. Give some of your money to your parents even RM 50. Then Allah will lead and show you the way.